Able to educate children of common concern to the problems and we learn together. Children are parents live, but also their parents hope, I and the world, like all parents, want their children to have a safe, happy, healthy life, let the children into a comprehensive development, comprehensive high-quality child well adapted to the future social development. Now I practice with some of his usual talk about some of my superficial understanding,UGG boots clearance, and encourage one another.
family is the child's first school, the parents of the child's first teacher, education, children's rights and responsibilities of parents, to teach the child talent is the common wish of all parents. As a mother of a child growing up in education, there are many areas worthy of reflection and recollection. Speaking of my children, I think that still is a more peace of mind of the child. This educational and school teachers, children and parents with the education efforts are inextricably linked. More than a year of study in school time, a balanced variety of grades, in a comprehensive quality education has made great progress. As a parent I am very pleased. Family education is essential for the growth of children, and perhaps some parents think that children go to school before the nurseries, kindergartens, children have good living conditions, left unattended on the line, in fact, this is not enough, in fact, my experience the child's education must begin from childhood start. If the child than for a piece of paper, parents are the palette, adjust the black, is black on white paper, adjusting the red, on white paper would be red. I think parents are willing to draw on white paper with beautiful pictures so that children have a beautiful, wonderful and healthy life, which requires parents to know how to use color, do this, I mainly focus on the following aspects from the children training and education.
a good family atmosphere more conducive to the child's parents grew
hard to do, may be an inadvertent action, a word can affect the child; parents do well, as long as the moment of attention to his words and deeds, remind themselves of their status as role models. So parents should advance with the times and abandon the old educational philosophy to their own words and actions to influence the children, to educate children.
create a human family is the character of the factory, in daily life, treatment of children held the same attitude as far as possible, the child's requirements and strive to achieve a just and democratic treat, if you can not meet the requirements of the child let the child know One of the reasons; let the children learn empathy, always to think twice, but also to dare to be responsible, to do a dare tablets, credible and responsible children. Followed by children with their friends. Communication can enhance the feelings between children and their parents. Artistic questions allow children to open their hearts to their own ideas and insights to share with you, resentment or joy will be outspoken. For example see the children happy when we ask: together to solve problems Impatient when their emotions as a parent when his son would say Mom, you do not, you should pay attention to the future, every time I would sincerely to his son, said: .
me and my children's father usually relatively busy work, but no matter how busy, the time the child at home, like evenings,UGGs, weekends, we will Tengchu time with children, play with him, to discuss issues understand children's true thoughts, so that he always felt the love of father and mother, some people will think grandparents, grandmother grandfather accompanied the same, in fact not, the elderly and children, after all, the age difference between the large, ideological differences are large, with inter-generational pro-favor, so that children are not developing the ability to take care of themselves.
also mean you do not embrace and kiss, let the children know it is kind and loving way. I hug my children often, and let him know that my mother loved him, the children grow up in love will know how to love others.
Second, the cultivation of interest in learning.
have to go to school for the children, parents communicate with their children to be good at learning. Me or the child's father before going to sleep every night, will ask the child's learning at school and asked if he has difficulty, let the children learn about knowledge, learning gains, school people and things, problems encountered, people need to communicate feelings, the children by speaking not only to improve speaking ability, but also to reflect further on the learned knowledge, people and events and a variety of problems encountered. Parents as equals and a positive attitude with their children so that children feel the joy of harvest, the failure to find, so confidently into the next study. Of course, not just to lecture, demonstrate knowledge should be interested in the role of parental role models perform much better than your preaching; sometimes with the children to explore cultural knowledge (you do not understand it does not matter,UGG boots, the child will teach you ), and children to solve a variety of things to discuss ideas and methods. Cultivating interest in their daily lives with their children when completed, does not increase the burden on you and your child. Time, and the parents of a high-grade child communication, the parents said the children every day in addition to school assignments, she will be an additional arrangement of a number of other operations, engaged in the sea tactical, she said, children with low grade, to do well , the children have done quite well, but by high school kids have a weariness of the heart, and made her very distressed. It all boils down to parents of the child's expectations are too high: despite the child's intelligence, ability can be achieved, regardless of whether the child can bear they simply give their children overweight, the child's physical and psychological harm by the enormous, so do not want to learn. I never give children extra homework arrangement, and occasionally, when only few puzzles, to improve his overall ability,UGG bailey button, I think that teacher assignments to the completion of the quality and quantity, as a parent occasionally checks on the children's mastery of sufficient the.
Third, the cultivation of interest in reading.
children develop at the same time, great attention to his interest in the cultivation and development of the subconscious. My children like to read, like the teacher's book ZHANG Ying, Zheng Yuanjie teacher's book, the Swedish writer Gelin Lun series of works, and some children's version of the classic the growth of the children are very interesting, I'll do my best to go from small to meet and train him, to give their children a lot of spiritual sustenance. Now my children he has become interested in reading, up and dressed every morning, the first thing to take on the living room reading a book, although only half an hour the morning, which is fifteen minutes reading and is again urging the adults only eat breakfast, then Ji Chongchong to go to school. Some people think that children will read a lot of extra books will not affect learning, including my home for the elderly has also been accused of buying the book I gave the children too much, too complicated, take the child's learning time is not the case, reading itself is a of important learning. Look extracurricular books, so long as the degree, and the examination of the study are not contradictory. If children do not read extra books, his every minute spent on learning it? Not really. Children are not machines, and his endurance is limited, can not be completely according to our requirements, has been high-speed operation. If your child likes to read extra books, so reading is a kind of active rest, is a good entertainment. Colleagues and friends around the children often ask me how to love reading, as the saying goes: Example is better than precept. If the child usually have never seen our own reading of the figure, then your education outcomes, including children's interest in the book will be greatly reduced. So in the My child read every day, I also read the general, with their own actions to affect the child, and now the book has become our friends, the child's interest in reading is to benefit from this.
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